I was contacted and advised that you
are
writing an article and wanted to contact some guys that have used this
service. I am not sure what sort of information you are after but will
just jot down a few ideas and impressions ( probably more than you want as
I can get carried away once started ) and if you want any further info. you
can email me back.
Firstly I guess you will want some info on me. I am a 33 year old New
Zealander. Education wise, I never went to University but have military
training and 8 years experience as an aircraft electronics technician. I
have travelled a bit and have worked briefly in Australia, Singapore,
Malaysia, and for 1 1/2 years in Thailand. I have owned my own business a
couple of times in the past but currently work as a Fleet Manager for a
fishing company in Micronesia. I have never been married and do not have
any kids.
With regard to their agency, I will give you a brief outline on the
extent to which I have used the service. So far I have used the
website to check out the catalogue of Russian women and to obtain
addresses for correspondence. I have also used their email forwarding /
reply system to send / recieve letters to ladies in Russia. I have even
been a part of one of the tours to St. Petersburg, although this was
only 5 days ( not a full tour ) which I tacked on the end of a holiday in
Ireland and the UK.
My reasons for using this service are many fold ( how long have
you got ), but generally my current working / living environment and
a dissatisfaction with the dating scene, and expectations of the women
back home. For the last 10 months I have been living and working on a
small island in the Western Pacific. While there are one or two pretty
women here, I generally don't find the local girls attractive and there are
some definite cultural differences which put me off getting into a serious
relationship here. Also, not a lot to do here out of hours and I enjoy
writing
letters, so it passes the time, with the large attraction that I may just
make an aquaintance that leads on to a serious relationship.
With regard to the women back home, and the ones I have had
relationships with in the past, they have just never seemed to work out.
Some are off on their own agenda and unwilling to compromise, or the
opposite, no drive or desire to see the world or try new things. I won't
even
mention the women I have met who have been into the feminism thing ( or
their version of it ) for fear of turning this letter into a novel. So the
idea of
meeting a woman from another culture appeals to me, with their different
priorities, expectations and outlook on life.
Another reason for using a postal dating service is the medium
itself. Often I have a problem in that until I start to get to know a
woman and relax a little, I am not a good conversationalist. I get a verbal
version of writer's block and have trouble making conversation.
If I can get to a second date, I'm usually fine from then on, IF! However
doing things by post is different, you can choose your words before you
send them, and by the time you physically meet the woman, the ice is
broken and there is some history there to foster conversation.
As far as how I have found the service , without trying to sound like I am being
payed ( for the record, I'm not ) I can sum up the experince in one word which is
Service. All the way from their website which is comprehensive with many
features and yet very easy to use, to their tours to St. Petersburg, John
and the rest of the team are extremely helpful and prompt in their replies
to questions. For example it was almost at the last minute that I decided
to include some time with the St. Petersburg tour, on top of an already
planned trip to the UK. This must have been a bit of a curve ball for John
as I wanted to fly into St. Petersburg a day before most of the tour
arrived from the States, and leave half way through. Also I wanted to write
to 4 or 5 ladies before I left to try to set up some meetings, and
hopefully
get a reply back from them, using the email forwarding sevice, ( all
this,
about 2 weeks before departure ). Oh and by the way John, can you arrange
a Visa for me and have it couriered to an address in Britain. All of this
was
accompished with plenty of email but no drama ( from my side anyway, don't
know how easy it was for John to sort it all out ), and I duely arrived in
St.
Petersburg on July 14th.
Regarding the St. Petersburg tour itself, it was extremely well run, and
Ron and Elena did a grand job of keeping things running smoothly. St.
Petersburg is a fascinating place, in itself well worth a visit let alone
with the possiblity of meeting the woman of your dreams. Unfortunately I
only had time to attend the first of the four socials planned for the guys
on tour, but was enough to give me the idea.
For me, what really made the trip was a superb mix of a fascinating
city, with the opertunity to meet some classy ladies. On the one hand you
have a city full of history, Cathedrals, museums, art and culture; and then
every few nights you are let loose in a room full of intelligent, educated
women,
all of them pretty and some being just plain gorgeous. And all of these
ladies
were single and I think most were seriously interested in the possiblity of
meeting
someone for a relationship. It was surreal enough to appeal to my sense of
humour; to be for once in my life outnumbered by women 5 to 1. The staff
was good in this situation and showed their experience by often doing the
thinking
for you, "time to change tables", "come and talk to this woman", "you seem
to be having trouble, here's an interpreter", that kind of thing. In fact
most things are taken care of by their agency including interpreters ( available
most times not just at the socials ), city tours, the hotel, etc. etc. It
was very easy to kick back, relax and have fun.
As to how well these tours work, well I guess that primarily depends on
what it is you are seeking. Like I have said, the tour is very well run
and the oppertunity is there to meet a large number of women, so if you
seriously want to strike up a relationship with an attractive, educated and
intelligent women, all the ingredients are there and their agency has done most of
the work for you. What's left for you to do is talk to as many ladies as
you can, decide which ones interest you and then try to generate some
interest from those ladies ( and hopefully a phone number and follow up
date ). I guess the success of a persons' tour depends on the individual
and I can only really comment on my own experience. At the end of the day
their agency make it as easy as possible for you, but it's still up to you to pick
up the ball and run with it. As to my own success, I had a great time and
even though I was only there for one social, I am corresponding with one
lady, and waiting to see if another I met will write back. My other mission
of getting a bit of a handle on the culture and character of the people was
also successful, and dissolved my fears that forming a relationship with a
Russian woman could bring along with it some major cultural hurdles and
other problems that could rise up further down the track and kick me from
behind.
And my impressions of the ladies of St. Petersburg, well I was very
impressed. Generally these women are intelligent and educated; they are
cultured and most have an appreciation of fine music, art, ballet, opera,
etc, enough to make me feel to uncultured colonial I am. I was delighted
to find most had a well developed sense of humour and sarcasm was not lost
on them ( a point that stood out after my time in Asia and my present
location ). Very many of the women are extremely attractive with beautiful
eyes and nice complexions. Their accent was pleasant and many of their
mannerisms and terms of speech were also appealing. I could go on but you
get the idea, I am quite taken with the women there, and hope to one day
find a soul mate amoung these wonderful women.
What more can I say, as far as their agency goes, I guess my best
recommendation is that I do not use any other service. I have checked out a
lot of others on the internet, but their agency was the first I tried and their
level of service has been such that I have not felt inclined to try any
others. They have a large database of women and many new ladies joining
every week, so feel confident they can keep me busy in the letter writing
department. Any questions or requests I have had have been dealt with
promptly and their email forwarding system cuts down delivery time by heaps
( especially from here ). Their tour to St. Petersburg I can recommend,
especially if you have a serious interest in a relationship with a woman
from Russia. Even if by some incredible misfortune you do not meet any
women there that you wish to correspond with, it will give you a valueable
insight into their culture, way of life and character of Russian ladies. If
you have any kind of sense of adventure, sense of humour, appreciation of
culture and admiration of beauty, you will have a truely great time which
will make a lasting impression on you.
Well, as I warned you at the beginning, once I got started it was
possible it could turn into an epic. I hope there is some information here
that you are looking for. If you have any further questions, I would be
happy to answer them just contact me by email.
Regards,
Steve